Saturday, December 26, 2009

The Gospel for Dummies

"He is jealous for me...."

It's 2:30am and I am awake.  I have a David Crowder Band song running through my head, intertwined with analogies.  Why does my brain work like this? Don't know.  But I do know God has made me this way for a reason.  So, I am up and typing on my I-phone. It's slower than the computer, but that helps me to develop my thoughts as I type.  So, enjoy the song lyrics in quotations, and I hope you'll enjoy the analogies as well.

Proverbs says a woman's hair is her crowning glory.   I have a lot of hair, and when my hair leaves my head , it clogs my drain.  (Or litters my floor, aaaargh).  If unity starts at the head and runs down, if it crowns the Body, then it's like my hair.  When we're all together, it's beautiful.  A head full of glorious hair.  When we are separated from the head, it just clogs the drain.  And leaves the head balding.

"love is a hurricane, I am the tree...."

The song that's playing is His song.  Music is made of notes.  Melodies and harmonies.  Themes (I'm thinking classical music).  If we are all on board, playing the song He wrote, it is a masterpiece of salvation for the world, a magnum opus.   It's a Gospel song.  A deliverance song.  A healing song.  A song that draws others into His embrace.  I played the clarinet in a band for years.  There's nothing like the tension of that moment when the conductor raises his baton, the quiet, taut with the expectation of the first notes.  Where will the music take us?
And there's nothing as horrendous as the clashing cacophony of discord if each musician plays the wrong note.  Sometimes in life we don't like the notes on our page and we want to play something else.  The tempo is not to our liking.  The key is difficult to play, requiring too much practice. Darn if I shouldn't be in first chair!  What song has The Composer written?  Songs are a journey of sound, of movement, of emotion.  What song am I playing for others to hear?

"if grace is an ocean, we're all sinking."

It's the greatest story ever told.  We are the words, perfectly crafted to sit on the page and express Him to all who will read.  If we move from our place, the story gets garbled, confused.  Have you ever read a book with a typo in it?  Such lengths went to publish the book, to edit it, and there's a typo.  If you're a person who loves to read, you get how distracting that can be.  My eye keeps going back to it, wondering why it's there, editing it in my mind.  Irritated that I paid good money for a book where someone didn't care enough to edit carefully.  Letters and words out of place can distract from the storyline, at best.  Or they bring confusion to the reader.  At worst, the reader walks away, not willing to wade through the words to make sense of them.  The story our lives are writing should be simple, clear, and easy to read.  "The Gospel For Dummies".

So there you go.  What story is your life telling?

Now go have a great hair day.  :)

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

How to Make it to the Finish Line as a Disciple

"....The kingdom of God does not come with observation; nor will they say, 'See here!' or 'See there!  For indeed, the kingdom of God is within you".  Luke 17: 20-21

The key to longevity as a disciple of Christ is your personal relationship with Him - it must be the center point for you.  Not public work, activity, charity...nothing else.  All these good things will naturally flow from a disciples life, but they aren't the main thing.

2 Kings 2:19-22 tells an interesting story which helps illustrate this point.

"Then the men of the city (Jericho) said to Elisha, "Please notice, the situation of this city is pleasant, as my lord sees; but the water is bad, and the ground is barren."

And He said, "Bring me a new bowl and put salt in it.  So they brought it to him.

Then he went out tot he source of the water, and cast in the salt there, and said, "Thus says the Lord: 'I have healed this water; from it there shall be no more death or barrenness.'"  So the water remains healed to this day, according to the word Elisha which he spoke."

  • From the outside, the external appearance, the city looked great, it's "situation was pleasant".  It's what was inside that was dead and barren.  We can't be content to hide behind a pleasant exterior when we are needing to be healed back to a place of life and fruitfulness again.  
  • A new bowl is needed.  God is always doing a new work, and Christ came to do the ultimate new thing in making us over into new creations (2 Cor. 5:17)  Just as Jericho was a cursed city and is being made into a new and blessed city, God has provided for us through His Son to go from death to life, from barrenness to fruitfulness by reconciling all things to Himself through Christ.
  • Salt is mentioned early in the Bible.  Leviticus 2:13 says "And every offering of your grain offering you shall season with salt, you shall not allow the salt of the covenant of your God to be lacking from your grain offering.  With all your offerings you shall offer salt".  God is a covenant God.  In Genesis 17:7 He promises Abraham (our father in faith) "...this is the everlasting covenant:  I will always be your God and the God of your descendants after you".  God has made an unbreakable covenant to be in relationship with us.  When we choose to be in relationship with God, we are agreeing to join in that covenant relationship and be His people.  
  • Being in relationship with God throws salt into the waters of your life, brings healing to what is dead and barren.  
Are you struggling internally?  Struggling with death and barrenness in your life?  This could be in any area of life.  How is your relationship with God?  The word says that God will ALWAYS be your God. He is Jehovah, our Lord
  The Lord who heals you
  The Lord, your provider
  The Lord, your righteousness
  The Lord, your deliverer
  The Lord who leads you in battle
  The Lord who leads you in victory
  The Lord, your peace 
  The Lord, the banner over your

Pursue your relationship with God through Christ Jesus, and you will make it to the finish line.  Go past external appearances, uncover your internal situations to the healing power of Jesus' finished work on the cross.  Continue in covenant relationship - God will never quit on it, it is an everlasting covenant!

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Divine Discontent Brings Change

Disconent can be the signal or motivator needed to bring change into our lives.  I call it "divine discontent" because I believe the Holy Spirit is truly our helper, working to help us see and make necessary changes in our lives, and those niggling discontents are often Him trying to get our attention. 

When I feel discontent, I tend to want to blame someone else for it.  It often manifests itself as discontent towards another person or situation, when in reality, I am the one who is being spurred to change.

We might feel discontent with a relationship that has gone stale, or a situation that has not changed.  Perhaps our spouse hasn't made changes that we think he/she should.  Perhaps we see a need in our community that we think should have been met by "so and so".  Such disconent is a signal that the change we are looking for probably lies within ourselves.

I remember feeling discontent with the level of romance in my marriage.  I mentioned things to my husband, dropped hints, etc., but nothing changed.  When was the last time I got flowers for no reason at all?  Then I decided that I would do the changing.  After making some adjustments and making the effort to speak more of my husband's "love language", he began to bring more romance into our relationship.  My change opened the door for him to change.  Discontent resolved!

It is a waste of our time, energy and love to wait and expect change to come from someone else when we have the power to bring change when we choose to.

Parents can feel discontent when they see a child consistently make choices that they disapprove of.  Years can go by with no change, and often parents will begin to focus on that discontent, placing pressures of expectation upon the child.  Children, even grown ones, want to please their parents, and the weight of a parent's discontent can be a binding burden, making it even more difficult for the child to change.  What may be helpful is for the parent to change.  If you've been saying the same thing over and over and it hasn't worked, quit saying it!  Find something new to say or do that will speak to the heart of your child, releasing them to change.  Acceptance and affirmation are tremendous motivators for change to occur in someones life.

Fabulously, when we make the change, we are happier.  Happier with ourselves, happier with the ones we were discontent with.  The atmosphere of our relationships begin to change.  Love begins to flow again.  What a great perk!

Where are you feeling that "divine discontent" in your life?  Take a close look and ask yourself, "What can I do, where can I change?".  You really can't force change on others, but you can certainly make changes in your own life. So, embrace the discontent as a signal that change is needed and go on, make the change.  You'll be glad you did!

Sunday, October 4, 2009

...and that's how the fight started.

Sometimes we just need to laugh.....


I heard my wife crying in the bathroom. "Honey? What's wrong" I asked.
"Oh, George! Just look at me: I'm getting so old! I have more gray in my hair than blonde, I have varicose veins on both of my legs, and I'm just fat and wrinkled all over! I really need someone to say something positive about me right now!"
I looked deeply into her eyes and said softly: "Your vision's real good, honey. That's something, isn't it?"
And that's when the fight started....
---
When I got home last night, my wife demanded that I take her someplace expensive.
So I took her to a gas station.
And that's when the fight started....
- - -
My wife and I were sitting at a table at my high school reunion, and I kept staring at a drunken lady swigging her drink as she sat alone at a nearby table.
My wife asked, "Do you know her?"
"Yes," I sighed, "She was my senior year girlfriend. I understand she took to drinking right after we split up those many years ago, and I hear she hasn't been sober since."

"My God!" says my wife. "Who would think a person could go on celebrating that long?"
And that's when the fight started....
- - -
I asked my wife, "Where do you want to go for our anniversary?"
It warmed my heart to see her face melt in sweet appreciation. "Somewhere I haven't been in a long time!" she said.
So I suggested, "How about the kitchen?"
And that's when the fight started....
- - -
One year, a husband decided to buy his mother-in-law a cemetery plot
as a Christmas gift.
The next year, he didn't buy her a gift.
When she asked him why, he replied, "Well, you still haven't used the
gift I bought you last year!"
And that's how the fight started.....
---
My wife was hinting about what she wanted for our upcoming
anniversary. She said, 'I want something shiny that goes from 0 to 200
in about 3 seconds.
I bought her a scale.
And that's how the fight started.....
- - -

Hope you didn't take that too seriously and laughed!
Have a great day and treat each other well!  :)

Thursday, October 1, 2009

When Things Go Wrong, They May Be Going Right

Just like you, I love it when I receive affirmation of who I am and who I am becoming.  But I can't live in that moment, I haven't yet "arrived".  As disciples of Christ, we need to keep moving forward, learning and growing in our understanding of what it means to follow Him.

The disciple Peter is a great example of this.

Peter has just been affirmed by Jesus, recognized for the revelation/understanding that he had received about who Jesus was, the Son of God.  I'm sure Peter was pretty stoked about that.  "I am a receiver of revelation" (and all the feelings of importance that must have come with that).  But just as quickly, Peter missed the mark when Jesus revealed that He would suffer and die.  Peter, "the revelator" was quick to jump in and tell Jesus this couldn't be true.  Jesus' response?

"Peter, get out of my way.  Satan, get lost.  You have no idea how God works."  Then Jesus went to work on His disciples.  "Anyone who intends to come with me has to let me lead.  You're not in the driver's seat; I am.  Don't run from suffering; embrace it.  Follow me and I'll show you how....."  Matthew 16:23-24 (MSG).


"Get away from me, Satan!  You are seeing things merely from a human point of view, not from God's." (NLT)

How hard it must have been for Peter to "see" Jesus as the Son of God, to have even a brief understanding of what that meant, and then to be told that the Son of God was going to suffer and die would have seemed so contradictory to the revelation.

Many times we grab hold of a revelation of who God is - we realize He's our Healer, our Savior, our Friend, our Mountain-Mover, etc. - and we want to stop right there, but are confronted with an alternate scenario playing out in our lives.  He's my Healer, but I've got a cancer diagnosis.  He's my Savior but I struggle with pornography.  He's my Friend but I don't feel Him right now.  He's my Mountain-Mover but circumstances are overwhelming me.  What do we do?

We let God lead.

We hear Jesus' words to Peter and acknowledge that while we know some things, we don't know all things. 

Just as Peter couldn't comprehend why the Son of God would need to suffer and die, God knew why.  So once and for all the penalty of sin would be paid, that we sinners could come into relationship with the Living God.  God's point of view is all-encompassing, and He sees how it is all working together for good, even when we can't.

Yes, we are thankful and rejoice when we gain clarity about who God is and how He works, but let's not stop there and think we have "arrived" at full understanding.  Let's take what we have learned and continue to add to it as we journey forward in God, trusting Him and letting Him lead.

...and just maybe when things seem to be going wrong, they are really going right!

Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Survey says.....

Remember the game show, Family Feud?  They would survey people to get the most common answers to questions and then the contestants would try to guess the answers before their opponent did.  Aren't you glad life is not lived by popular opinion?  Or is it?

"John came fasting and they called him crazy.  I came feasting and they called me a lush, a friend of riff-raff.  Opinion polls don't count for much, do they?  The proof of the pudding is in the eating."  Matt 11:18-19  (MSG)...or "wisdom is shown to be right by its results" (NLT). 

Live today not by popular opinion, but by what God has called you to do. 

John didn't understand why Jesus and His disciples weren't functioning in the same manner as themselves, and Jesus was so great - He acknowledged the difference and significance of John's ministry. 

In our pursuit of God and Mission for Him, let's remember to celebrate and honor those around us who are also fulfilling their God-given callings.

What has God called you to?  Do it with all your might!

Thursday, September 17, 2009

How do we let the anger go?

Have you ever been angry?  Who hasn't!  But how about the anger that just can't seem to let go, anger that simmers and bubbles beneath the surface until it finds a vent to explode out of?  You know what I'm talking about.  It's the anger that demands an answer.  We want to understand, to figure out why it happened, how it can be fixed, and how to prevent it from happening again.  We find ourselves rehearsing it, searching for different outcomes, perhaps falling into the trap of laying blame.  It's a vicious, violent cycle that robs us of our peace and hurts others (often unsuspecting people who are in the wrong place at the wrong time as our anger comes shooting out). 

I've come to a personal conclusion that I have no answer to anger.  I can't figure it out, understand it or fix it in any meaningful way which results in the anger disappearing.  When anger is in my hands, it just burns a hole in me and I suffer.  But there is way out of the anger trap if you'll read on.

I had the opportunity to minister to a much-loved one recently, minstering from my own struggles with anger, and this is what I've learned and what I shared with her.

Quit trying to make sense of it.  You have to let it go.  (I can hear the cries of despair now, "I've done that, I've tried to let it go and it keeps coming back!").  The only sure-fired way I've found is this:

Repent.

It's not enough to forgive the one who hurt you, but we need to repent of holding onto our anger, turn the whole mess into God's hands and decide it is now His to deal with.  Ask Him to take the anger, and pray for the one who hurt you (notice I said pray FOR them, not ABOUT them - that's called "letting go"). 

Matthew 5:22 (amp) says that "everyone who continues to be angry with his brother or harbors malice (enmity of heart) against him shall be liable and unable to escape the punishment imposed by the court..."

Anger happens, but continuing in it is what gets us into trouble, and in the end, WE are the ones who pay the price for being angry.  Did you get that?  Not the one who did us wrong, but we ourselves are liable!  I don't know about you, but that is not the way I want to live.

Paul reminds us that the grace we walk in is no excuse for holding onto our anger:

Romans 6:1  "Shall we continue in sin that grace may abound?  Certainly not!"

Let's not take grace beyond it's borders and continue to be angry. 

Choose repentance, and ask God to take the anger.  You'll be amazed not only at how He does this, but often you'll see a beautiful response from the one who hurt you.  Best of all?  The peace that comes when the burdens comes off your soul.

Oh, yeah, my friend?  She went from turmoil to peace after we prayed. 
Are you ready?

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Great blog to follow!

Hey all, be sure to check out http://www.jillsweetman.com/ , Jill speaks from the heart and life experience about being a mom, wife, woman, christian...it's a great blog to add to your reading list!

Thursday, September 10, 2009

Jesus Didn't Come to Fix the Church

I want to start with a thank you to all those who read my blog off my Facebook page.  I appreciate all the comments you leave me there - thank you!  :)

Matthew 9 -

Jesus has just healed a man and forgiven his sins when He encounters Matthew, a tax collector, and calls him to discipleship.  The discipleship lesson begins with sitting down and rubbing elbows with what the Amplified Bible calls the "especially wicked sinnners...the preeminently sinful".  These guys have been pegged by society and religon as most offensive, yet here is Jesus and his newby disciple eating with them.  Why?

"Those who are strong and well (healthy) have no need of a physician, but those who are weak and sick.  Go and learn what this means:  I desire mercy [that is, readiness to help those in trouble] and not sacrifice and sacrificial victims.  For I came not to call and invite [to repentance] the righteous (those who are upright and in right standing with God), but sinners (the erring ones and all those not free from sin)."

Jesus was on a mission to save sinners from sin: to save you, me, your neighbor, and all those who acts you cannot abide.  And He was willing to associate with them, to eat with them, to be in their world (not of it) in order to accomplish His mission.  This was highly offensive to some, but Jesus was clear, "I didn't come to call the righteous".  He wasn't interested in "fixing the righteous" - they were righteous already!  He was doggedly determined to get to those who were lost.

There are two kinds of righteous people:  a) those who are righeous by the righteousness of Christ, having received and taken on His righteousness as a free gift of God's grace, and b) those who are righteous because they do the right thing.  Righteousness can be achieved both ways, but the "b" camp has a tough row to hoe as they say - Paul makes it clear in Galatians that if you are going to be righteous by your right actions, then you'd better be right ALL the time because one unrighteous act disqualifies you, nullifying your righteousness.  Ummm, I choose "a".  Nevertheless, if you can pull it off, you are righteous.  And Jesus is happy about us being righteous.  So His attention focuses on those who aren't righteous and how He can bring them into relationship with the Father (Mission).

Now we have to ask ourselves:  Where is our focus?  On "fixing the righteous", or on "reaching the unrighteous"? 

Calling the righteous to repentance falls under the catetory of "biting and devouring each other" (Gal. 5:15), and judging and condemning each other (Matthew 7).  It brings destruction to the "fellowship" (Gal. 5:15) and the lost are ignored. 

But saved and called out ones, if we are living on Mission, our challenge is to not get caught up in the wrong focus.  Let's focus our gaze to see and reach those who need Christ.  The righteous are righteous already (or are trying to be). 

Let's see the lost, the broken, the hurt and the dying
Let's love them, have compassion on them
Let's be merciful to those lost in sin
Let's bring Jesus to their table/home/office/

Let's begin choosing to live on Mission

I am challenged as I know you are, and as I pray for me, I'll pray for you - on Mission together,
Michelle


Question:  I wonder if Mathew's "first love" that he would be called upon to remember was that of sitting with and reaching sinners - that as Jesus reached him, he would reach others?

Wednesday, September 9, 2009

What is Shiny and Salty and Yummo? (Hint: You are!)

We all have a favorite salty snack food - that go-to fave when the hunger strikes.  What do you crave?

I was praying for the Church this morning a recurring thought for this year - that we would be a shining, light-filled city set on a hill for all to see and be drawn to out of the darkness.  That we would be salty and flavorful and winsome, desirous and beneficial to our city.  And in my reading today I came upon this Bible verse:

"I will rejoice in You and be in high spirits; I will sing praise to Your name, O Most High!"  Psalm 9:2

Yes!  What a fabulous, and fun way, to be a witness to San Diego - by being a people with rejoicing faith.  We CHOOSE the attitude we will walk in today.  Let's choose rejoicing.  Let's purpose to lift our spirits up - let's "get high" in our spirit!  That means we are going to have faith, we are going to trust Him, because as it says in verse 9:

"The Lord also will be a refuge and a high tower for the oppressed, a refuge and a stronghold in times of trouble (high cost, destitution and desperation)".

No matter what we are facing today, God is stronger!  He is a safe place for us to reside in, to rejoice in.  Let's get in there with God, rejoice IN Him, and be a shiny, salty, crave-alicious Church in San Diego.

Yummo!

Monday, September 7, 2009

How Do We Accomplish Mission?

We learn from the Mission Master.

Jesus, (who was conceived, lived, died and rose on mission to save His people from their sins), He is the Mission Master.  As He lived out Mission in everyday life, He shared these words with us:

"For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve others and to give His life as a ransom for many."  Mark 10:45

The success of Mission hinged upon this strategy:  giving for and serving others.  He paid a personal price for the sake of others, to the point of death.  What price am I willing to pay?

I envision a church, a people, who live on Mission in such a way.  A people who lift up and launch people upward and onward in God, not seeking to Lord over them, not seeking to be "in charge", but instead coming under people and serving them as they journey into relationship with Christ.

In order for this to happen, we have to get real.  Is there a price we aren't willing to pay?  Is our comfort, time, money or resources something we aren't willing to part with?  If so, a change of mindset is necessary.  Disciples not only believe in sowing and reaping, they practice it.  Followers will only follow until the price is too high, but disciples don't waver.  Disciples know that sowing comfort, time, money and resources into the Kingdom of God, into His Mission to save His people, will always reap a good reward.  Sowing and reaping is not just a nice principle, it is Kingdom truth.

Accomplishing Mission gets personal.  It costs us personally.  We can no longer be satisfied with sitting in our church seats, content that the "professionals" are taking care of business.  We must reject self-seeking motivations of giving or serving in order to prop up our own sense of value, identity, or position.   Instead, as disciples of Christ, are we willing to empty ourselves, to sow from our personal lives?  For the benefit of others.

What greater cause is there but to see the greatest mandate on earth be accomplished?  What is greater than meeting the deepest desire of our Father's heart - that His people be saved?  Nothing I know of.

It is time to SEE our City, to see the people again.
On Mission with Jesus.

Friday, September 4, 2009

Test run #2

What atmosphere am I living in?

Am I creating an atmosphere that I want to live in?  We can take ownership of the atmosphere by determining what attitude, actions and words that we are going to allow to flow from our lives.  I determine, choose, create the atmosphere.  And if you think about it, the atmosphere you live in is one that you invite other people into.  Is it winsome, attractive, God-breathed?

Matthew 7 gets into the nitty gritty of atmosphere building by looking at how we relate to other people.  The Amplified Bible starts out asking if we are living a life that judges, condemns or criticizes.  I was at a conference recently and the main speaker shared about being invited to speak in different places where in the back room the conversations were critical of other ministries.  He chose not to be associated with that atmosphere and no longer ministers there.    It wasn't an atmosphere he desires to live or minister in - it is not who he is.  We are called to edification, and it is too easy to be "righteously judging" (usually in our own minds) when really it is simply being critical and condemning.  What I sow, I am going to reap.  It's a challenge for all of us, but let's keep working and growing in creating life-giving surroundings, even when the gate is narrow (contracted by pressure).

The text continues by warning of false prophets, wolves in sheeps clothing.  Perhaps these are ones who are going around doing the judging, condemning and criticizing?  They'll be known by their fruit.  Is the fruit seen in our lives good/worthy of admiration?  That captures my attention - are my words worthy of admiration?  Is my attitude?  Are my words?  How about my facial expression?  (That last one was for my husband - the poor recipient of my most challenging facial expressions - love ya babe!).  I don't know about you, but I don't want to be a "false" anything!  I want what flows out of my life to be good and worthy in every way.  We can no longer accept less in our lives.  Challenge yourself!  Don't allow anything less than "good and worthy" things penetrate your heart, spirit, life.  Live your best life now!

The scary ending of the chapter leaves us repenting - that we can put on a facade of Christianity, but if the fruit of our life doesn't match up with what Jesus is teaching, we are deceived in thinking He'll even know our name.  Time to get real.  Time to let the Word scour our hearts clean.  Time to invite the Holy Spirit to touch on the areas that need renovation.  

But hear the good news - are you ready? - when we build on the Rock, on the foundation of Christ, we'll stand through the tough times.  You''ll make it.  I'll make it.  God is unshakable.  It is a continual journey for me to let go of my pride, my insecurities, my selfishness and build on Him, but it's a journey that never takes me back.  It always launches me forward into Him!

Let's be atmosphere changers, atmosphere creators by letting God's life breathe through us.  You in?

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